Part of the storyline: Trauma & Therapy

Police & Me

Twice in two weeks, the Police were called on me — for speaking, and for being me. On ambivalence, empathy, and the trust I have lost in the institution that is supposed to protect us.

By Abraham Hdru ·2 June 2026

I have lost trust in the Police! In the span of two weeks, white people have called the Police on me — for speaking, and for being me. And every time, the Police investigate these matters as if they were serious breaches of white people’s freedom. I am sorry — what did I do? Tell me.

Black people have always had an ambivalent relationship with the police, since, historically, the stick of the state — or of the oppressor — was used to silence the voices of so many before me. Hence I pose the question: can something so embedded in the DNA of an institution reproduce itself until it becomes the norm?

I can’t tell you too many details about the specific cases, since they are ongoing — still being investigated by those very institutions. Nevertheless, I can paint the picture, so that you, the reader, can understand what it means to be a black person in this country today.

The similarity in both cases was this: a white man felt intimidated by a black man. So I pose the question:

Habt ihr Angst vom Schwarzen Mann?

In either situation, I did the only thing I know well: I spoke my mind. In the first case, I did it online; in the second, I did it in person.

And what I realised, through these ordeals, is that the institutions we hand that responsibility to are lacking in empathy!

Police — I am talking directly to you.

When you show up with six people to a situation you don’t want to de-escalate, then by your mere presence, you are already escalating it!

And so I have lost trust in the institution that is supposed to protect us. The next time I need to call the Police, I will not call you — because you are the Problem.

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